Today we are getting real about whether or not someone is really and truly interested in you.
Here are 5 questions to ask yourself:
Do they ask you a lot of questions about yourself and seem interested in learning all about you?
Do they ask for plans far in advance so that they can make certain that they get to see you?
Have they introduced you to any family or friends?
Do they call you or is it all texting?
Do they talk about the future with you or is it all surface conversations about the here and now?
If your answer to all or most of these questions is NO, then it’s time to get real; he or she is probably not that into you. People who are into someone want to know everything there is to know about them, are dying to see them often and all the time, want to introduce you to their inner circle because they are thinking about your joining their inner circle, want to talk to you on the phone just to hear your voice and most importantly, talk about the future and plans they have for the future to see if your future gels with their future.
Get real, and be honest with yourself about this person and this relationship you are in. Maybe it’s time to move on.